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Welcome To Off The Record

Providing free mental health services for young people

Our aim is to support young people’s mental health to fulfil their potential for a brighter future.

We are an independent charity in Leigh Park and offer free counselling and mental health support for local young people and their families. Our services are available for those living in Havant and South East Hampshire. As a charity, we rely on the generosity of donations to keep our services running.

Please donate today and help us make a difference. Every donation, no matter how big or small, helps us provide free counselling and mental health support to someone who needs it. Together, we can ensure that no one in our community has to face their struggles alone.

We offer 8 weeks of free counselling if you are aged 11-25. If you are a parent or carer of a young person aged 11-25 you can receive 6 weeks of free counselling with us. 

 

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I learned methods to change my mindset. Focusing on a positive daily routine.

Male, Aged 25

I learnt how I can share how I'm feeling without making others upset.

Female, Aged 12

Tools to help with self-reflection and the impact of my behaviour affecting my relationships.

Parent/Carer, Aged 46

I learned that there is always someone to talk to when you need someone and that it is not good to keep all the sadness inside but to talk it out and cry it out.

Female, Aged 18

I felt OTR listened really well and I felt comfortable. I wanted to eat more and they helped give me ideas and things to try which I did and helped me learn new strategies to keep calm and help me with situations in the future.

Male, Aged 12

An extremely good service with some lovely people. Will help you to help yourself, and provide a safe space to air your thoughts productively.

Female, Aged 14

Everyone was always very understanding, knew what they were talking about and could provide me with lots of resources to work on for myself. Also everyone was just always kind to talk to and very supportive and understanding.

Male, Aged 15

I needed counselling to air my thoughts, receive advice and to steadily work through my emotions and past, all which was done fantastically by my counsellor. I learnt lots of life lessons, that I may not have learnt if I hadn't had someone to bounce my experiences off of to be able to view them objectively. I also learnt a lot of different coping skills, preventative measures, and learnt a lot of about myself and my own needs and how to be retrospective. I learnt to care for myself, not feel so much guilt, and to be a lot more confident and have perspective.

Male, Aged 21

OTR were great at listening and explaining methods that made me feel less anxious. They’re very supportive and not likely to judge, they made me feel safe.

Female, Aged 14

They don’t judge and are friendly

Female, Aged 19

Every week at the same time someone checked in with me and asked about my life and family. She let me know if she’d be off as well. When I started seeing my counsellor I was made to feel very equal, not a counsellor but more of a conversation and relaxed and I’d always look forward to the appointments. At every part of the process with OTR I felt supported.

Female, Aged 25

I now know how to treat myself. I'm not the mistakes I make.

Male, Aged 22

There were check in phone calls every week I was on the waiting list, felt nice to talk to someone.

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I learnt to challenge my anxiety instead of letting it take over.

Female, Aged 17

My counsellor was friendly and approachable, which made it easier to talk than I thought.

Male, Aged 17

It really helped that I could express my feelings in confidence

Female, Aged 15

I learned to cope better with my anxiety in different ways I haven’t been taught before

Female, Aged 13

I signed up and got put on a waiting list for counselling, it’s good, you get a call every week while you wait and they ask how you are and what you’ve been up to. I didn’t really expect much from a charity but it’s actually really good. I got different tools to help me live with my anxiety. I went from being so scared I couldn’t leave the house to now I am looking for work again.

Male, Aged 24

What would I tell someone thinking about contacting OTR?... That they can and will help you. It might seem a little nerve racking at first but all they want to do is help you.

Female, Aged 20

OTR helped me a lot and opened my eyes to things. I'm much more confident in myself and don't know what I'd of done without it. I learnt how to coping techniques for different things, and learnt not to expect things to happen overnight.

Female, Aged 21

I was a bit worried as it was my first time in counselling, but it was very helpful to have someone to speak to, they were all very good at listening to what I had to say and it’s a great service if you need someone to talk to about your problems.

Male, Aged 19

Going to OTR helped me understand how I felt, control emotions and how I am with others.

Male, Aged 13

I learned a lot about myself through counselling and how to manage things like my physical and mental health. OTR’s counsellors and other members of staff were very accommodating and understanding. It was everything I needed at the time, which really helped me and if anything it exceeded my expectations

Female, Aged 20

I learnt that I had also lot of past trauma and that I don't have to carry it with me anymore.

Parent/Carer, Aged 52

They were really friendly and listened to me

Female, Aged 19

Doing groupwork was supportive and I liked being with other people, made me feel like I wasn’t on my own. I learnt ways to make me less angry and it’s okay to have emotions, I wish I’d know about it before. I’d tell anyone that it’s not scary and being in a group really helps.

Male, Aged 15

I was really nervous to call but the person on the phone was helpful and friendly, they really listened and didn’t make me feel like I was wasting their time

Male, Aged 15